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IS INTERNET DATING WORTH IT?

They call it “internet dating”. A more proper phrase for it is “how many times do you wanna be burned??”
Yes, I’ve tried it over the years (I’m divorced, so why not??), and, to a person, I’ve been burned, deceived, scammed and abandoned.

Now, don’t get me wrong: I’m definitely honest, and don’t go into the “good ol’ boy” routine of football, Nascar, bars and how-good-are-you-in-bed. I really believe in partnership of the truest form, don’t yell/fuss/control/abuse or act like some sex-crazed jock.

But maybe that’s what’s wrong with it. Maybe the “lady” on the other end’s expecting that … maybe wanting it.

Sorry to burst your bubbles, kittens … but that’s not love: that’s infatuation (to look up the meaning, just go here. Now look up love! See a difference?)

Listen … back in 2000, I “met” a “wonderful” lady from Wisconsin, and we got along just fine … until she saw my pic and realized I was only 160 lbs!  Then she broke away from the “budding” relationship because, in her exact words, “I’m looking for someone with meat on his bones”.
As luck would have it, she did find one a little farther down the internet superhighway. But don’t go asking her about her “new love.”
You can’t.
He ended up beating her to death.
Seems his “profile” and his “personality” were two different things.

In Kentucky recently, a man named Robert Drown, Jr. met a young lady on the internet, and they became close.  Soon, they became lovers … until she found out the man was a registered sex offender!
She broke off the relationship …

and, today, he’s in jail, awaiting trial.  The charge?  He strangled her to death, then raped and killed her nine-year-old daughter … and then set her house on fire — leaving her three-year-old daughter to die in the flames!!

Ahhhh, but he was “exciting” … he had “meat on his bones”.

Of course, I understand these “matches” don’t all end like that.  Sometimes, a good pairing can come out of it.  But listen … if you’re goin’ to look for a car, you’re gonna look under the hood, right?  If you’re hungry and eat a banana, you’re gonna peel it — or an egg, shell it — or a peanut, hull it, right??
Why?? Because ya don’t know if it’s good or bad before you do, correct??

Then why take people only on the basis of their looks, build or smooth talk and THEN share your family — even your BODY — with them??  Anybody can “hand you a line”!  Take the time to know … REALLLLY know … that person.
Look for what they focus on.  Ask some tough questions.  Read their “inner body language”!  DON’T MEET THEM IN BARS!!  Take some time to think …

There are men out there who are genuine and sincere (I’m one!)  Just take the time to find out …

You never know:  Your whole being may depend on it!

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